I’m hoping that your experience can help me. I am “high and tight” in the balls dept. and have gone from a 50mm, 45 mm and now a 40mm ring for my Holy Trainer, but when my balls decide to retract, they WILL pop out and I am free once again. My GF wants to play along with chastity, it seems, but she hates that this causes pain and worries that I could do long term damage. Any ideas for us H&T guys? I’ve thought about ball stretchers, but perhaps you know of a cage that is built for us? Thx!